Monday 4 February 2019

The rule of roller coaster

We all have been on a roller coaster ride at least once in our life. What were our feelings?

Imagine you are going up at great speed .. we feel exhilarated, we smile and laugh, we enjoy, and most important we feel we are in control. Have we ever shouted "O my God".

No....

Now imagine you are coming down at the same speed. Suddenly we begin to think , what will happen if the roller coaster malfunctions? The enjoyment suddenly changes to fear and instead of enjoying we close our eyes , we shoot , we hoot and remember our Gods. Why ??

Because suddenly the feeling of control has gone?

The same happens on our life. .

When things are going up we feel top of the world , we enjoy , we forget the owner of roller coaster and we call it "Our achievements"

When things are going down suddenly we feel nothing is in our control, we close our eyes , become fearful, start blaming everyone, right from family , friends , society, country , God and above all ourselves.. and that's the time we all remember our respective God.

The roller coaster of the universe is fool proof ..

Watch a kid when he is thrown in the air ..
The kid enjoys both up and down and giggles ..
Not because he is sure how dad will catch him..

No, he actually is not at all aware what falling is..
He just enjoys each moment as it comes .. knows no fear..

That's life .. enjoy each and every moment as if we are watching a movie ..
That's perfect state of bliss ..




Detachment


What is detachment?
Good question..!!!

When we are born we can't eat by ourselves, we can't pass stools nor walk or talk ..
We just cry and tell our problem .. and irrespective of nationality, caste, Creed , financial status , war or peace .. etc etc we were fed , cleaned and taught how to do all that ..
Once done we never took credit of it nor we bothered out our next action ..

A lion kills a deer , eats as much as he wants and leaves the rest for jackal, hyena , vulture etc .. without bothering whether he will have his next meal or not ..

The moment we become so called "intelligent and educated " we suddenly have a sense of "I" did it ...
The moment I did it comes in our mind .. the very next moment we become insecure "how will I do it again" 😂😂😂
So we save that uneaten deer for tomorrow.. the beginning of attachment starts ..
And it gets blown up as
My home , my car , my child , my company, my family , my country etc etc ..
And once we say "My" Universe says "thatastu" sambhalo isse ..
And we are like 🤔🤔🤔

Detachment is just changing the words

Your world , your earth , your family , your company, your etc etc to Universe and see the magic ...

It is like when we were children we were never bothered paise kaha se aayenge .. we just persisted in front of dad , dad reluctantly gave in to our persistence , we never said we did it .. we just enjoyed our fruits and then thought dad se next Kya maange ..

Here dad had limited resources..
But the supreme dad universe has unlimited resources .. because he is the creator not us .. we are just co creators ..

That's pure detachment..

I use this Everytime.. e.g
If I am conducting a workshop and something is not working out I talk to Universe ..

" Dekho Universe.. workshop nhi karna to bol do.. waise bhi I am very lazy .. I want to enjoy my weekend .. so I can call quits .. but if you think I am doing the right thing support me .. or else mein chala sone " 😂😂😂

Universe ne aaj tak mujhe sone nhi diya 😂😂😂

Put the credit or blame to supreme dad. .
And just thank him for whatever he has given ..
I had made it a practice whenever I go to Temple , church , gurudwara or masjid ..
I just say " thank you for whatever you have given me"
Now I have stopped going to all these places because now universe is my friend .. we are always together 👩‍❤‍💋‍👩