Ardhanareshwar: balancing the energies

Balancing Energies..

First thing first ... 

We cannot balance anything which cannot be measured.. and we cannot measure anything which we have not accepted ...

"Ego" or masculine energy is not a bad word .. unfortunately it has been termed bad ..

Let me be frank .. 

If I have this mission to create a chemical free society, it routes out from the sense of self worth .. and this "Sense of self worth" is also ego ..

Ego the energy which motivates us to do something or create something.. 

So next time if someone says I don't have ego .. either it is a pretense or the word has been misunderstood.. 

Love the feminine energy 

Love is the glue of the social fabric .. love makes us empathizing, caring , protecting and nurturing in nature .. 

Unfortunately even love is misunderstood 

How often have we heard?

Nobody loves me ..🤔🤔

Arrey do you love yourself ? 

If the hotel owner is scared to eat in his own restaurant then why will others eat there .. ?? 😂😂

If we can't sell ourselves to ourselves then how will we sell it to others 🤔

So we see we have not  accepted and understood both the energies..

The whole universe is the illusion created by the "tug of war" between the dualities.. the nritya between feminine and masculine energy .. 

Why balance these energy ? 

Ego as we said is not bad .. but excess of anything is bad .. God gave us ego so that we can become co creators .. but as ego grows .. the "co" vanishes and we think we are The Creators 😂😂

How often we have heard 

"I AM A SELF MADE MAN" 

Arrey you forgot when you were needy and someone had pity on you and gave you your first break 🙇‍♀🙇‍♀🙇‍♀

Love also though termed as +ve energy has it's side effects .. 

Love was made to balance ego .. but too much love makes us overprotective .. and the worst part it makes us "Control seekers " 

It is said the purest form of "unconditional love" is Mother Son relationship.. 

If that's so why good mothers are bad "mother in law's" and good daughters are "bad daughter in laws" 🤔🤔

Now coming back to the point ..  balancing the energies as symbolized by Ardhanareshwar..

1Accept ego and love both as our allies .. 

2 live life as if watching a movie .. eg .. if someone praises us .. enjoy the praise .. boost your ego .. bask under the glory .. but don't take it home .. after we have relished the moment take a deep breath and say nice movie .. 

Similarly when we love someone set them free .. if they do something against our expectations think that "O this is a part of the movie .. the script says so" .. if we get angry .. experience the anger .. experience the pain .. but again don't take it home .. 

Similarly we can experience lust , hatred , jealousy, grief etc etc like a movie ...

The more we practice it the more we will become neutral .. and we will become embodiment of "Unconditional Love"

Law of detachment to the karma

Tools to accelerate balancing

Pranayam, meditation and practicing self love 

John Jaani Janardhan .. does religion have a place in today's world ?

I still remember the song so well from Naseeb..
John Jaani Janardhan Tara rara rum pum pum..
Sahib ne bulwaya ..haazir ho mein aaya ..

My story begins the moment I land in Rameshwaram station. As usual I am being scouted by autowallahs .. I told one autowallah and before he could negotiate his phone rang and he got busy .. next autowallah same story .. and I was wondering is this a coincidence..

Next I was escorted by another autowallah and I told him my hotel name and he said a price .. I asked him " Is it the correct price? " (I have stopped negotiating with people who sweat their way to earn.. I just ask once this question) 

He said "Yes" 

I boarded the auto and was first surprised to see this sticker of Jesus .. Mecca and Sai ..

I was happy and surprised and I asked "what's your name ?" 

He said "John" 

"And why did you post all the three religion pics ?" I asked 

"There are 3 seats and there is a place for all three in my auto?" He replied 

And we became friends.

Since I had 2 days I asked how much will you charge for a full day tour of Rameshwaram?" 

He told a price to which I asked the same question. He replied affirmatively and I agreed. 

The next day I checked out of the hotel and was at his disposal to let me roam around Rameshwaram and then drop me at the bus stand for bus to Chennai ( couldn't get reservation in train ) 

I wanted to check-in the baggage at cloak room but he said "Put it in the auto I will take care of it while you roam." 

Was I apprehensive yes for a moment .. but then I remembered .. have faith ....

It was a wonderful tour .. he made me visit all the temples and especially the ride to Dhanush Kodi was replenishing. 

There is a straight road to Dhanush Kodi and on both side is sea .. the most beautiful part of it was that on my right side the sea was excuburant .. full of energy. . white foam waves over lapping each other .. and on my left side sea was calm and peaceful.. the yin and yang coexisting .. it was breathtaking ..

We reached back early so he dropped me at the hotel where I waited in the lounge and I asked him to come back to drop me to bus stand. 

Meanwhile I learnt about his family of 2 kids and wife and his 2 brothers who worked in Dubai..

He came at 7 to drop me to bus stand and when we reached there the bus had not arrived .. 

A new place to me and unknown language and it was dark .. so I reconfirmed how will I know where the bus would come ..

He helped me talk to customer support in their language and when he found that I was helpless he said these reassuring words ..

" Don't worry bhaiya I will see to it that you board the bus ." 

I smiled ...

He said let's have tea and we sat in a restaurant and shared tea. The tea was really good .. 

Sometimes happiness comes in small cups 

As we again waited for the bus I asked " There must be lot of churches here ?"

He asked me "What bhaiya?"

I asked again .. "You are a Christian na .. so you must be having lot of churches here." 

He said "No bhaiya I am a Muslim !!!!" 

And I was amazed and surprised.

"How come John then? " I asked 

"My dad named me like that." He replied ..

I just wondered "Does religion ever exists or it is just our creation ?" 

We became greater friends and we took selfies and we also connected on FB (Yes he has an FB account ) and I promised to him that whenever I or my friends come to Rameshwaram we will take your service ..

My bus arrived and I bade him good bye .. carrying back lots and lots of memories..

#JaiHind 

Love can heal .. heal yourself

The only healing energy in this universe is love .. "Unconditional love" ... 
Rest everything is an excuse and a medium..

Yesterday I was in Rameswaram, somehow I am drawn by it's serenity and secondly, I had to immerse my Mom's ashes. So as soon as I reached Rameswaram I checked into the hotel and the first thing I did was to take the ashes and walk down away from the hustle-bustle of the temple into the loneliness and serenity of the sea.

As I walked across the shore .. waves lapping on my feet I saw a fish.. I thought it was dead .. one of the remnants of fishermen's booty which might have spilled over. 

I picked it up and saw it was breathing slowly .. may be it's last..

I felt pity for it .. and suddenly I noticed one side of its face was swollen. And I remembered something...

My mom .. she had cancer on her left face and it was also swollen. As I held the fish wondering what I could do to save it , I could feel the same helplessness which I felt when I had embraced my mom, the helplessness in front of death ...

Feeling sad I just blessed it and put it back in the sea.. wishing it recovers ..

I went further and found the right spot to immerse the ashes .. and as I immersed it, I just asked for forgiveness from my mom and gave forgiveness to her for any grudges I had held... Sigh....

I sat there for an hour or so absorbing the sea .. intermittently the fish catching birds swooning into the sea to catch fish .. and a white and black eagle perched on top of the tree looking for an opportunity to hunt.. 

As I walked back along the shores I wondered what would have happened to that fish ..

And lo and behold I found the fish .. I don't know if it was the same fish but it looked very similar except that the lump was missing .. but it was also breathing it's last .. having pity on it I threw it also in the sea ..

I walked back but my memory was still stuck up at the fish .. 

Sudden impulse took over and I walked back to find the fish .. I found it floating almost dead few meters inside the sea .. I waded myself inside the sea to pick it up and bring to the shore... 

Not knowing what to do I just started caressing it .. slowly slowly I raised the intention to heal giving it love .. I observed that as I patted it .. it started to flutter it's fins which were motionless till now and struggling.. enthused I stroked it more and more, it started vibrating it's fins more and waging it's tail ..

Life had come back into the fish and it slipped into the sea .. 

I felt overwhelmed.. my feelings were beyond the limitations of our thought process ..

Relearnt a big lesson ..

Unconditional love heals everything... Can even bring life back ...

Though couldn't shoot the whole incident since it was unplanned.. posting a few shots ...

Maybe my mom's soul had come to me to say "Spread the word that unconditional love heals everything" ...

#BodyMindSoul 

Choice of right partner

"I am looking for Mr / Mrs Right"

This is a common answer everybody says or even if not says , is thinking about ..

The question is "Who or What is Mr / Mrs Right" 

Well it depends .. out of many factors the most important fact is the stage of evolution we are in .. 

When we are young we are in the "Body" state. We are attracted by the outside world. For us right partner should be beautiful/ handsome , young , successful. Our thoughts are mainly influenced by attraction. And obviously "Sex" is an undercurrent and somehow "Lust" overpowers us. We are more prone to have "relationships" to discover "Sex" rather than get into a relationship. We make mistakes and learn from our mistakes. 

As we grow up and learn from our mistakes we realize there is something beyond "Body" as well. We give more importance to "Emotions." We start evaluating relationships beyond "Sex" and even "Sex" becomes an emotionally involved act. We start looking for "Soulmates" though we may not fully understand the word "Soulmate" but somewhere we are attracted to people who gel with us irrespective of how they look. We value emotions and want to be with people who understand us. 

This is the "Mind" state of relationship.

Unlike the first case here we may or may not meet our so called "Soulmate."

But as we graduate from the so called "Soulmate" syndrome we understand one thing ... We are not looking for a person who understands us .. but we are looking for "understanding" .. "Understanding ourselves". In this stage we are not looking outside we are looking inside. We suddenly start searching for someone with whom we can be what we are and vice versa. No pretense , no trying to understand.. just being ourselves. This is the "Acceptance" stage of relationship. Here words like sex , caste , creed , age , country , color , height , weight etc doesn't matter. What matters is "Soul Connection" .. Here we understand what "Soul" is all about. Forgiveness starts dawning and "Unconditional" love prevails.

The yearning for "Possession" vanishes and "Acceptance" and "Abundance" envelopes us .. This is "Soul" stage of relationship. Here we actually discover ourselves and start loving ourselves. 

And the final stage is one where we become universal. We realize that we did not want anybody else to complete ourselves.. 

It was we ourselves whom we were looking for all the time 

#BodyMindSoul 

Addiction V/S Passion

Good morning friends.. 

Today we will talk about addiction.. 

What is addiction..

A compulsory habit with the prime purpose to seek pleasure ..

What is pleasure 

An illusionary state of happiness ..

Why does addiction increase ..

Because illusionary state of happiness is short lived .. we find that this momentary happiness is not enough we want more .. so either we take overdose or we change addiction .. 

What types of addictions are there ...

Most harmful : drugs , alcohol, tobacco etc 

Also harmful : TV , Social media ( unless it is your job or requirement ) news paper , tea , coffee , talking , shopping , even bathing , sleeping , eating, work, movies etc .. 

In short anything which the body requires as a desperate need is addiction .. we have seen people not able to sleep without taking bath .. not able to pass stools without tea , cigarette even newspaper.. ( now what has newspaper got to do with stools 😂) 

Let's reframe addiction : "Anything which the body requires regularly to be "happy" and absence of which makes us "sad" is addiction .. "

Drinking tea is not bad .. but dependency on tea is bad 

In one line .. "Milega to chalega nhi Mila to bhi chalega " 

I will take another drastic example of addiction ( how good things also become addiction) 

I have a habit of drinking lemon water with honey every day .. when I am at home it is manageable .. but when I am travelling many a times it is not possible.. but I manage without it .. I have seen people getting disturbed when their routine is upset ... And the whole day is spoilt .. 

" Routine itself is a big addiction "

How to remove addiction??

Addiction and passion are 2 sides of same coin .. when we seek pleasure outside we become addicted .. when we seek pleasure inside we become passionate.. 

And when we stop seeking pleasure we become joyful 

And joy is permanent state of happiness..

We will take detailed steps to stop addiction in next blog 

😊😊

Importance of a Guru

Let me share a joke with you all.

Once there was a priest who used to be an ardent follower of God. So much was his belief in God that he had submitted his entire life to God.

One day floods hit that village and everyone ran for shelter. The priest stayed in the temple and whenever asked would say "God will protect me" 

The water rose and everyone started vacating the village but the priest stayed saying "God will protect me" 

The water rose to first floor and a boat came to rescue the priest but again he denied saying "God will protect me" 

The water rose above the temple and the priest stood on top of the temple arch praying to God to help him. A helicopter came to his rescue and still he denied saying "God will help me" 

Inadvertently the priest drowned and found himself in front of God. Immediately he started cribbing "God I was an ardent follower of yours and you treated like this to me. My whole faith is devastated."

To this God replied "Son I sent the villagers to you .. I sent the boat and the helicopter to you.. but you would take none.. what is my fault.." 

Friends do we realise where the priest was wrong ..

Ego ... Many a times our knowledge creates an ego that we forget to see the God in every human being.. we feel as if God is a separate entity and human beings are just mortal beings .. whereas each and every creation is God's miracle and we need to be humble enough to learn from them. 

All said and done there comes the role of a Guru.. As Sadhguru once said in an interview that Guru is like GPS for travellers. So we need to be humble enough to accept Guru's in our life.. 

Even if we are the MD of a company or a learned priest if we want to learn cooking we need to make a chef our Guru even if he is just 12th grader. Like wise in any field if we need to excel we need coaches , Guru and mentors.. these are the persons who have already travelled the path the hard way and could save us lot of hard learnings and mistakes. 

A learned man thinks he is the ultimate.. A wise man always thinks there is so much to learn and grabs on every ounce of knowledge humbly. 

When someone asked me who is your mentor .. I always feel I don't have a single mentor ... I have my parents , my teachers , my friends , the books I read , the movies I saw,  the colleagues I met , my Juniors and my bosses , and society as a whole which has been mentoring me.. 

I take this opportunity to show my gratitude towards all for shaping me... I

I would like to finish by reciting this Doha by Saint Kabir 

My Guru and Lord were standing in front of me and I was wondering whom to bow first .. I bowed in front of my Guru because he was the one who brought me to the lord ..

We are what we eat

Friends we already discussed in our previous blog that we are energy bodies vibrating in a certain frequency. And how does this energy body survives or functions .. basically on an input and output mode.

What are the input modes?

5 senses organs : What we see, what we hear, what we touch, what we smell, what we eat through our mouth.

Since everything is vibration so every input is a vibration whether positive or negative.

Each vibration has an effect on us. So negative vibration has negative effect and positive vibration has positive effect. 

If there is an input there has to be an output.

What are output modes? 

Again sense organs : What we speak , what we touch. Rest organs are not involved in out put. 

The rest which is not digested goes out through our excretion system. 

Now coming back to the mid point and that is digestion. We digest what we eat, hear, see , feel and smell and these vibrations become a part of our body.

Science has proved that any matter which dies starts decaying. That is, it starts becoming acidic. And acidic nature is negative energy. This energy is required for destruction and then only construction is possible. 

So if we eat stale food, listen to stale negative news , stale scenes , stale smell, then we are actually inviting negative vibrations in our bodies. Resulting in us becoming negative and hence attraction negative energy. 

Coming back to specifically non vegetarian food .. it is not bad to eat non veg food. 

Neither we are promoting the cruelty faced by animals while being killed. Watch National Geography, a lion kills it's prey in a more cruel way. 

What are we saying then. 

Simple .. non veg foods have 2 bad qualities 

1) The process of killing them emits negative emotions and emotions being energy waves go into our energy system and make us very negative. Just check behaviour pattern of hard core non vegetarians, they are generally aggressive. 

2) Most of the non veg is stale and has lot of acidic (negative) content. If we see in animal kingdom mostly animals eat freshly killed prey and all the animals who feed on stale prey like hyena, vultures are not beautiful creatures... They emit negative rays. 

Hence we should not eat non veg, not because of external reasons but for our own internal reasons. 

If we see only human beings are provided with all set of teeth. Carnivorous animals have more canine teeth and herbivorous have more molar teeth. Only human being have both, but at the same time the canine teeth are not well developed.

What is the conclusion. 

1) Avoid non veg as much as possible.

2) Eat non veg only when survival is the issue. 

It is written in our ancient scriptures 

If we kill an animal and eat for survival then it has no ill effect.

If we kill an animal and eat for our greed and carnal desires it has a great negative effect. 

It is the intentions that matter .. otherwise this whole world is a 3D myth and a drama of construction and destruction.

#GoVegetarian

The power of mantra

We all by now know that we are all actually energy bodies vibrating in a particular frequency.. (if not then visit our law of attraction video). We also understand that certain frequency attract certain frequencies and repel certain frequencies. 

At the same time we think and thoughts are vibrations we send to universe. Fortunately unfortunately we send thoughts @ 1 thought per sec approx and these repeated thoughts get manifested in our lives. 

The question now is why then are we suffering. The answer is we suffer because of lack of consistency in our thoughts. We are very fragile and keep changing our thoughts depending on our experiences. Since most of our experiences are negative we tend to sway between positive and negative thoughts.. moreso towards negative thoughts and hence the outcome. 

What is the solution..?? 

Out of many solutions which we discuss in our workshops (Body Mind Soul) one of the powerful tools is "Mantra." 

What are mantras ?? 

Every sound in this universe is a vibration. And mantras as we hear are a collection of sound vibration which have a certain impact due to its frequencies which it emanates. Like Gayatri mantra has the frequency of manifestation. Shiv tandav stotra has the frequency of destruction and creation etc etc. Mahamritunjay mantra has the frequency of boosting the immune system and thereby enhancing longetivity. 

Every mantra was developed, tried and tested by sages , practiced and passed them down to us for our benefit. We need not analyze them like we never analyze electrical equipments, cars, computers.. we just follow the instructions and make our life easy. Similarly make use of the mantras and make your life easy. 

One thing which I would like to add here. Mantras have nothing to do with religion. Aadi saints never had any religion, neither Hinduism is any religion. It was and is just a way of life. It is only in the last 2000 years or so we have become "constipated" with the "concept" called religion. 

Use mantras to your advantage and live a life full of health, wealth and abundance. 

And lastly I would like to add that "Om" the most powerful vibration is the frequency of creation. Create your destiny by chanting "Om" .. when we continuously chant any mantra our own body vibrates in that frequency and we attract the same results. That is why it is said chant any mantra at least 108 times. 

Happy manifestation. 

#BodyMindSoul 

#SartracGlobal 

Shiv Stotra Mantra for you all

https://youtu.be/Ibkz9L5_FRk

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Attract what we want

Soulmates ... We are all in a journey which is not an easy one.. but yes the rewards are awesome..
Me and my team have been evolving like you all ... Falling ... Getting up .. then falling .. and somewhere we had this mission created in our lives to help our brethren .. not only in TF journey ( for many non TF 3D journey is more tougher ) .. rather I would like to put it this way ... Every one is a TF .. TF means incomplete.. either we are yin or yang .. divine masculine or divine feminine.. ( this has nothing to do with sex .. a male can be DF like me ) .. coming back to point .. everyone is a TF ... Some have been blessed to be aware of it ... He he .. some people are going to scream "Why me !!!!!" Ha ha
Me and my team conduct law of attraction workshops called Body Mind Soul ... And one of the aspects is that we attract what we are ..
So the answer to all the below questions are
1. My twin is abusive
2. My twin blocked me
3. I am going through hell
4. I am facing health challenges
5. I am facing financial challenges
6. I am married and my twin is married what to do ..
7. We are far distant with each other
Etc etc etc
There are lots of if's and but's
But there is only one answer to it ..
We are all energy bodies and we are vibrating in a frequency which is attracting all these situations..
For eg ..
There is a radio which plays different channels ... 92.7 ... 93.5 ... 94.0 etc
If we tune to 92.7 we hear those songs and like wise ...
Does that mean the other channels are not present ...
They are but we don't come to know all our lives till we remain tune to 92.7 
What's the point ..
Everyone's journey has been chosen by us only ...
If we tune to radio scarcity .. we will have financial.. relationship.. health challenges..
If we tune to radio abuse and block ..
We will have people blocking us .. talking negative about us .. running away from us ...
We forget there are other channels as well ..
Like radio love and abundance ... If we tune to this we will receive abundance...
And the best and foremost way is to clear our mental blocks
The biggest mental blocks are
Fear ... Ego .. age .. sex male female  .. caste .. Creed .. country ... Religion ... Married .. single .. power ..  position
We need to think beyond this ..
Some of the ways of knowing ourselves are
1. Yoga and meditation
2. EFT

For beginners EFT is a very powerful tool ..
Search on web how to do EFT and start doing it as well as Yoga and meditation..
God bless you all
#TwinReunion