Sunday 6 October 2019

Fasting : To do or not to

Why do we fast and none other species fasts ?

Eating is the primary objective of all species in this universe
It is a survival tool
Every species eats other species partly or wholly to survive
That’s the truth, bitter or better

Only one species doesn’t eat other species and lives on non living vibration and creates living environment for all species and that are plants and vegetation.
They consume chemicals, natural or man made and convert them into living energy matter and this matter goes up the food chain through all bodies, like tiger doesn’t eat grass but eats the deer which in turn eats grass

Eating consumes almost 90% of the activities of any living being, which means 90% of the life cycle of any species is spent on either eating or finding what to eat. The remaining energy is spent on reproduction and in between is rest.

This also means that while any species is finding food that species is hungry and famished
A state similar to fasting

Except human beings all other species have a permanent stage of fasting and small phase of eating
A lion hunts once in 3-4 days

None of the species have a curriculum like 3 meals a day and evening tea and in between snacks

On the other hand human being also spend most of their time eating but the difference is, since food is easily available we spend most time eating.

We are in a permanent state of stomach full

Now imagine a car
We start the car , go to office and then leave the car for 6-8 hours to rest and then back to home and then again 6-8 hours of rest
The engine is maintained well

What about a taxi which runs 12 hours a day
The failure of its engine is guaranteed

Our digestive system is not made for 12 hours of munching every day
Hence we have all sorts of health problems and obesity

In ancient times if the learned ones told the masses this definition no one would have understood and would not have abided by it

So they gave a religious touch

Like in workshops we have maintenance week similarly we have Navratri , mangalwar , somvar, Ekadasi , Roza etc fasting

Now let me share with you another secret of fasting

The moment you fast, body knows there is no food coming, it slows down its metabolism and starts conserving energy
It goes into energy saving mode

At this time whatever we focus on  gets our full attention and we are able to manifest better and faster.

Now we know why it is said
If you want to achieve this keep 16 Friday fast or Tuesday fasting etc
We also should watch our thoughts since our thoughts also consume energy. Negative thoughts drain us and positive thoughts energise us. Hence if we do pooja , prayer , namaz during fasting we are bound to be positive and our manifestation becomes strong.
Fruits are recommended during fasting to give you enough energy without overloading your digestive systems
Fruits are great toxic cleaners as well

So if we want to have good health
Eat less , stay hungry
Then we won’t need to fast

Body will always be active

If we eat less we can solve another problem as well

Compensate for food shortage so  that many who sleep hungry can eat. They are in a permanent state of fasting and that is also bad

Eat less , eat good , stay healthy

We have come here not to eat
We have come here to experience the creation and co-create with the universe. Eating is just a survival tool.

By the way I am a great foodie and I enjoy eating
But enjoying eating doesn’t mean gorging on food.

Teach your children to eat less and enjoy more



Sunday 21 July 2019

Spirituality Simplified

The prime requirement for any conversation is, there should be a speaker and a listener ..
If that's so how do we talk to ourselves..

Who is the talker and the listener ? 

All our self talks are between ego ( ego only rides on the body .. a dead man has no ego ..) and the spirit ( or soul whatever we may say .. a dead man will still have a soul .. it is said that even when body dies the soul still hasn't left the body .. stopping of breath and heart beat is just a start not the end .. ).

Just analyze a typical self talk ..
You see an accident victim .. 
Spirit guides : Go help him 
Ego says : I want to but don't want to mess with police 
Spirit: But that person needs your help 
Ego : There are so many there, somebody will help , why should I get entangled? Anyways I am getting late for office ! 

And ego won.. but the conscience is suffering.. all along the journey the conscience (or the soul experience) will keep pinching you .. till the time either you bow down to the soul calling ( soul calling is a very widely used misunderstood word. The soul always calls us .. we don't listen to it because of fear and lack of faith ) or we shut up the soul guidance  forever.

Now watch the self talk of a hardened criminal 

He gets a contract to kill a person, he goes there and shoots him. 
No self talk .. because whenever the soul wanted to guide him he won the argument by giving logics and one day soul stopped guiding him. 
Now please don't mistake here that the soul stops guiding anyone. The soul always guides the ego.. only difference here is there is so much other noises around the body that the ego is unable to hear the soul. 

That's why it is said 
Spend some time with yourself and you would find a amazing person ..

Hence being spiritual is not making others happy , giving service to others , helping others , or going to Temple , Church , Gurudwara or Mosque , it is non of these. They are the karma's of our body. As long as body is there we can perform these task. Try doing all the above without a body.

Being spiritual is not an outside process. It is an internal process. 

In simple words the more we start listening to our Soul and the more we develop faith in what our Soul guides us, the more we will come closer to our Soul. And the love affair with our Soul will start. 
The best soulmate of ours is we ourselves. 

The day we will actually merge with our Soul .. all self talk stops .. and we attain permanent moksha ..

Because if we do what our body/ego wants , that will develop karma and all karma needs to be countered hence we take rebirth.

But if we do what our Soul says it brings no karma effect, and we reduce our karmic baggage to the minimum and one day when we have 0 karmic baggage we attain permanent bliss.

The journey of human being is to go as closer to our Soul as possible.. that's spirituality.

Do we need a spiritual coach ? 

Yes because we are our bad masters. We need someone outside to discipline us. 

Who is the best guru ? 
Any one who has started this journey and is ahead of you to start with. 
And as you come closer to your soul then the soul takes over ..

Our Soul is our best guru ..

Start your soul search by starting meditation.



Thursday 18 July 2019

Health is wealth .. is it ??

Jo zyada shor machata hey wo sahi hey ..
Or hum log behre ho gaye hey issilye hum uuncha sunte hey ..

Have we noticed that lately we have become very much health conscious.. 
Detox , diet , exercise , yoga , meditation , retreats , programs .. what not ..

Have we really become health conscious ...!!! 

A very big NO..

There is a saying ..

A drunken snake walks straight ... 

Our health conscious persona is actually a cover up for our guilt ..
And nothing else ..

Have we seen any ad of health products..

Ye bhaag daud waali zindagi or thakna mana hey ...

Hey bhagwaan .. to chod do na bhag daud waali zindagi .. 

Nhi chod sakte .. because we have made a mental trap which says more the money .. more successful you are ..

And unfortunately we pass this stress to our next generation...

We have become a consumer oriented society .. 

What's my point here ...

Let me explain with example...

Which is the most important requirement for life ..

Food .. we can live a day without any food .. there are people who can for weeks or months ..

Water .. we can survive a day .. some can even do it more .. 

Air .. we can't survive minutes .. some can may be more but again in minutes only ...

The most important factor in living Air..

And everyone in this universe is equal in terms of Air ..

We exercise .. we breath more , we relax we breath less .. we take in the amount of air required.. we don't get greedy over air ..

Aaj lungs bhar hawa le leta hun ..
Kabhi hua hey aise 
Nhi.. 

Because the body knows how much is required .. and universe has provided that much for everyone..

The same was for food , land , water and other resources..

Unfortunately we became greedy and started storing .. and that's where all diseases start happening..
Stored water , stored food .. the biggest health challenge.

And over and above .. we eat like insecurities ..
Shaadi hey to daba ke khana hey ..
Kyu Bhai .. Kal nhi milega kya ...

If we treat water , food , money like air .. 
We will never fall sick ..

The mantra to a healthy lifestyle is not "diet" neither "exercise".. 

It is the way we eat 

Eat that much which body tells you and when you are hungry 
Drink that much which body demands 
And earn money that much which is required.. 

Live a healthy lifestyle ..

Out of 186000 species on Earth , only man needs Yoga , meditation , diet plan , detox , rejuvenation programs , gym etc etc ..

Because somewhere we have become so over endowed that we have forgotten to listen to our body .... Listen to our mind and listen to our Soul ...

Note : This post is not to demean Yoga , meditation or any program . I am a big promoter of Yoga and meditation and other practices .. and I follow them whole heartedly.. the whole point is if we don't listen to our body .. all the above is useless 




Sunday 14 July 2019

Pleasure, Happiness and Joy

Is there any difference between Pleasure , Happiness and Joy ?

On the face value they all look similar with slight difference of experience but when we retrospect then we find that they are world apart.

What is pleasure ? 
It is a feeling of enjoyment felt at body level and body level only. And that is why we seek pleasure. And we always seek something which is outside. 
So anything that titillates our 5 senses gives us pleasure. 

What is happiness ? 
Happiness is a state of mind. We do not necessarily require 5 senses to be happy. We are happy when say things go our way or when we meet someone near or dear to us , when we get good news etc. We don't seek happiness rather we feel happy. It is all to do with our mind. We can choose to be happy even if we hear a bad news. But bad news never gives us pleasure. 

Then what is joy ? 
Joy is never sought. Joy cannot be felt as well. So it has nothing to do with our body or mind. It has its root deep into our soul level. When we attain the state of remaining happy under all conditions we reach the state of being joyful. A joyful person is always energetic irrespective what happens outside. 

Joy is the state of being. 

And the purpose of life is to find how to be in a joyful state forever. Because only in this state we can be the manifestor and co-creator. 

For being joyful we do not require any external agency or senses. It is felt with our 6th Sense. 

How to graduate from pleasure to state of being joyful ? 

We can't have the cake and eat it too.

So first thing is to detach ourselves from seeking pleasure. The biggest challenge today as to why we have bad finances , bad health , bad relationship and lack abundance is because we have indulged ourselves to only seeking pleasure.

The day we detach ourselves from seeking pleasure we will find ways to be happy , and when we train ourselves to be happy everytime , we will graduate to being joyful everytime. And that's when we learn the art of unconditional love. 

Someone asked me can we ever be joyful to meet someone ..

Well if you are seeking pleasure you will be pleased to say meet a beautiful girl or handsome man or an influential person.

If you are wanting to be happy you will want to meet your dear friends or family members or your beloved. It's all about emotional connection and state of mind.

And the day you will meet your soul family who have been yours since universe got created , you will automatically feel joyful just like the way a dog reacts on seeing his master after a long time ..

Your body mind and soul will start dancing.. and you experience bliss


Thursday 11 July 2019

How to deal with anger ?

A question which always comes to my mind is when we say that a man should conquer his 5 senses and should avoid greed , lust , anger , ego , illusion etc then why did God or Universe make these at all. In particular say Anger. If it was so bad why did God create anger at all. 

So I asked many people in my Whatsapp group and I got very interesting answers and some real points to ponder. 

But that does not answer the basic question.

Why God created anger in the first place ? 

Let's introspect.

God created human being with free will. Human being is the only creation which exercises total free will. 
He can do whatever he likes , achieve whatever he wants , enjoy whatever he likes and create whatever he is driven to create. 

That's a good point as well as a bad point.

Good since it gives liberty 
Bad as in it doesn't describe boundaries. 

Anger is a tool which creates boundaries and limits. 

You disturb a sleeping lion he will bear it , you disturb him again he may still bear it, but if you keep on disturbing it there will come a point where he will retaliate. 

Now this retaliation comes from the emotion of anger. If there was no anger it won't retaliate even if you disturb it to ages.

Similarly we keep destroying nature but nature does not react. But if we keep on destroying nature at one point nature will react with anger and retaliate by means of tsunami or earthquake or heavy rains. 

So anger is necessary to create a boundary and discipline.

If that is so why do we say anger is bad ? 

Anger is bad because the way we use anger is wrong. 

Anger is like one of the weapons in a warriors armory. And the rule goes like this 
1) Weapons are used only when necessary. 
2) Weapons are used as per situation demands. We don't use a tank to kill an enemy soldier.
3) Third and most important, weapon is a tool but the warrior doesn't become the weapon. What does that mean? Anger is only a tool and we discard the tool after use. We don't sleep with the tool.

After every tsunami nature comes back to its creative phase and does not carry it over. 

So the best way to handle anger is to handle it like a tool. 
Always reprimand the action and not the person and never carry it to bed.

Don't make love with anger 

And only a heart filled with love won't get angry over small issues 




Friday 21 June 2019

Patience V/s Persistence

A friend of mine pinged me and asked "What is the difference between Patience and Persistence? 
And I said to myself "What a simple question!" 

Patience is a virtue where in a person can wait for anything endlessly having faith that it is going to happen irrespective.

Persistence is a virtue by which a person takes certain action consistently even if he is not getting result or has any chance of getting results.

The answers were very simple but when I introspected deeply I found that it was a Pandora's box. 

I wondered that if both are a virtue then I should develop both the virtues in me. But then if I develop patience then I should take an action and wait patiently for the result to come. Which means no more action. And that is against the so called virtue of persistence which says keep throwing stones till the bulb is broken. 

My friend answered no it's not like that, you take an action , wait for the result to come and if the result doesn't come in a stipulated time then try again and persists till it happens.

I said ahaa .. but who decides till when to observe patience .. and again the moment a thought comes enough is enough I need to try once more , points out that patience is lost and action is required. Catch 22 

So Patience and Persistence cannot live together!!!

Let me give you an analagy..

Wild dogs are said to be the best hunters with maximum hit rate because once the team locates a possible prey it starts chasing it till the prey is exhausted and cannot walk more. Persistence pays and they devour the prey.

At the same time lion is not persistent. It cannot chase a prey till the end. So it waits for the prey to come near to it, and then pounces it. They have been noted to wait for the prey to come to them for hours.
They can lie motionless for hours. 
One more better example is Anaconda which can lie for months in wait of prey. Height of patience. 

So as wise human beings how do we imbibe both the virtues which seem contradictory?

And then I read about ducks and how they swim. If you notice a duck over the water it is calm, composed and swimming effortlessly. But if you see beneath the waters it's feet's are paddling continuously with great Persistence.

And eureka the solution dawned.

Patience is a thought process and not action oriented. So whenever we are expecting anything we should be calm , composed and have faith that we shall be rewarded one day. It is all about mind game. That way we will never get agitated, whatever the interim results are. Just practice Patience over mind. 

Persistence is action oriented and is related to body. So while our mind is waiting patiently for result to turn into our favor but at the same time our body is restless and keeps on working till the goal is not achieved. 

This is called working with detachment ..

Why most people fail is ..

They do not persist in their actions but at the same time they are impatient in their mind and when results don't come they start blaming the world , God , friend , family , society , country , weather etc etc ..

So the right amalgamation of Patience and Persistence will lead to manifestation of all our dreams... 



Wednesday 19 June 2019

Khudi ko kar buland itna .. Raise your vibration

Khudi ko kar buland itna ke har taqdeer se pehle 
Khuda bande se ye pooche, bata teri razaa kya hey 

Raise your vibrations so high that before writing your fate 
Universe is compelled to ask you , what do you desire .. 

We have been reading about this since childhood but what does it actually mean , or do we really understand and imbibe the meaning.

Let's again understand with an analagy ..

Suppose we are sitting in a room and there is a bad smell emanating from somewhere. We try to search the source but we can't find it. So what do we do ?

There are 2 ways to it 

1 We ignite an essence candle. The candle will first burn itself. And then produce a soothing fragrance. The fragrance will first purify the smell around it's candle and slowly slowly it will spread to larger space until it envelopes the whole room. 
If it is allowed to burn more it might actually spread to other rooms. 

Has the bad smell gone .. a big no.
What has actually happened is the candle created a Universe of soothing smell around it's area with Persistence.

If we take a look at "this" Universe from top we would find the following.

A cloud of bad smell and in between that cloud a small patch which is unaffected by the smell and created a small universe of soothing smell. It is like that lamp which creates a Universe of light around itself in the midst of dark thick jungle. 

Fellow travelers we cannot change the whole universe , it is a humungous task and actually not our job. Our job is to create a small universe for ourselves to experience and all those who want to experience with you... 

"Create your own universe" my next book will give step by step details of how to do it. 

Till then start with writing your dreams and take one step at a time and persist till Universe says ...

Teri Razaa kya hey ... What's in your mind...



Tuesday 18 June 2019

Why is death necessary..

One of biggest fears of any creation is death. We are so attached to this life that the very thought of death scares us. Have we ever wondered why? 
A) Uncertainty, because we don't know what's beyond life.
B) We are so much attached to this worldly experience that we don't want to leave it.

If that's the case why did God , Universe or whatever you may call created death, and if at all we need to die then why live at all.

This question bothered me for long and led to lot of introspection.

Well in the first place why are we living ? 

Universe/ God created this universal experience zone and wanted us to experience his creation and hence he created consciousness. Consciousness can only be created/ experienced when there is duality that is positive and negative , heat and cold , day and night , ego and love etc. There can be no conscious experience without duality.

Let me give you an analagy. 

Why do we see things? 

Because there is light. Correct. 

What if there was only light and no darkness. Just imagine we won't be able to see anything except a bright light. And same in case there was no light. We would be only seeing darkness everywhere. 

The most amazing part is not this , but the fact that we would have lived and died without even knowing what is light and darkness. How will we know that black is darkness if there was no light. Intriguing .

Now coming back to point , we got consciousness to experience the creation of universe but at the same time our soul always guides us to just watch the creation as a movie and not to get attached. Universe also gave us memory so that we can survive and co-create. 

What is watching the creation without getting attached? 

It is to become non judgemental. 

And universe gave us free will. 

Free will is like a sword. We can use it any which way. And we used it the wrong way. 

We became judgemental. Why he did like that to me? Why this is so? Why I fail? He is my dad , my mom , my wife , my friend , my enemy , my foe ...etc etc .. we get so much attached by being judgemental that we slowly progress from abundance to scarcity.

When we are born as a child did we have any of these judgemental emotions? No.

We had abundance. We were well fed , we laughed , we cried , we slept away to glory and we smiled. 

And as we grew older we started carrying burden of memories , mostly bad and revengeful to such an extent that we destroyed all abundance. 

In IT we say that if a cumputer hangs due to virus and cannot be cleaned the last resort is to format it. 

Death is nothing but reformating the harddisk and installing new softwares again. And we are back to abundance. 

It is Universal way of removing old memories. 

The day we realize that way to abundance is to forget and forgive .. we will not only live consciously but also we can control our life and death. Then it actually doesn't matter. 

So if we want to live healthy, with longitivity and abundance try forgiveness...

My suggestion to people who are obsessed with past life regression, don't do it unless very urgent. It is like poking the bees nest. 

Let me explain with an analagy. 

If 2 friends met and they slightly remember that one owed some money to other, but don't know how much. They can reconcile and forgive, forget fast and catch up again.

But if they went into past details and one friend found that the actual money is in lakhs .. Knowingly he won't be able to forget and forgive  ..

Doing past life regression is like opening old wounds .. dont do it if you are not matured enough to handle ..

Rather the best way is to forget and forgive .. love everyone and live happily and with abundance.. it is our birth right to live an abundant Life ...

#Abundance 

Sunday 16 June 2019

And Universe Conspired

"Every action has an equal and opposite reaction" when Newton discovered this he didn't realise what he had stumbled upon ..
What we call in our scriptures as law of karma .. or sow as you reap ..
The universe actually never conspires ..
Well don't be shocked to hear this coming from a person who eats breaths and speaks "Universe conspires"
Universe is actually damn bothered to conspire for 7 billion human beings and that too in a small planet Earth .. a miniscule amongst don't know how many billions of stars or planets in this universe .. and that too how many universe .. uffff

So what is this conspiracy theory ..

Well to begin with Universe is the laziest person around and wants just peace ..

Let's take an analagy ..


There is a lazy dad snoring away to glory ..
And his kid playing in mud suddenly wants a chocolate .. he cries ..
Dad opens his eyes and says shut up ...
That's the first negative thought which comes in us. .

Now if the child gives up .. then that's fate ..

But if the child persists on crying .. dad thinks of distracting .. he gives the kid an eclairs which he had in his pocket ..

If child takes the eclairs then that is "luck"

But if the child doesn't take and keeps on crying .. the dad understands .. if he needs to keep this kids mouth shut and have a great sleep he must get him the chocolate ..
And he calls swiggy to deliver the child his chocolate ..
And that's termed as "Conspires "

And now the child has defined his "DESTINY" 

Sunday 28 April 2019

The Blank Cheque


A CEO of a company was going through bad days, he was not able to meet expenses, got dejected and wanted to give up.

As he was contemplating about life sitting in a park an old man watching him asked
"Hey young man you look troubled?"
The businessman replied "I have lost everything, my business is in trouble, I just want to quit."

The old man took out a blank cheque in favor of the businessman and asked "Would this be ok for you to start again. Fill up whatever you want."

The businessman thanked the old man and asked
"But why are you helping me. I don't even know you!!!"

The old man replied
"I had struggled all my life to become a rich businessman and now I have retired and want to help as many people as I can"

The businessman left with a new vigour thanking him again and promising to pay back the person soon.

He kept the cheque in his safe not to be used until emergency , and started again with the same zeal and vigour, having the comfort zone that if he fails there is the cheque to be cashed.

Soon he regained his business and didn't need to use the money, so he thought of returning the cheque to the old man.

He waited for him at the same park asking people have they seen an old rich man.

One passer by replied ..
"That old man who distributes cheques ?"

The businessman replied
"Yes"

The passer by replied
"O we are also searching for him. He is from the mental hospital and he inadvertantly escapes and starts distributing cheques to people, if you get hold of him intimate us."

1 We all have people in our life who motivate us , encourage us , show us ways when we are into dark moments .. they are like these old man's cheque, though we can bank upon them .. but cannot encash them.. these are our real assets whom we neglect.. remember the last time we felt like giving up and maybe a child , a stranger , a message etc motivated you to start all over again ..

2 Such people who distribute blank cheques of motivation are usually called 🤣🤣 from mental asylum ...
But that's part and parcel of life ...
The old man's happiness
The blank cheque ....



Wednesday 20 March 2019

Holika Dehan

Fellow travelers wishing you all a very happy Holi and that reminds me to the question as to what does the burning of Holika teach us.

As we all know that Holika was the sister of King Hiranyakashyap and was granted the boon that fire will not harm her. In a bid to get rid of Prahlad his devout son, the king planned the burning of Prahlad. He ordered Holika to take Prahlad with her to the burning pyre and since Holika was safe in the fire Bhakt Prahlad would be burnt alive.

What happened further amazed everyone!!
Though Prahlad escaped unhurt but Holika was burnt to death.

Why??

This answers the question which many of us ask ..
Do evil (negative) forces effect common man?
The answer is yes it does!
But at the same time no negative (evil) force can harm us if we are strong inside and have faith in ourselves. 
At the same time if negative forces fight against strong positive forces they lose their power and subsequently get destroyed. 

So remain positive by raising your vibrations and manifest what we desire but at the same time remember positive manifestation remains forever..

Happy Holi to all fellow travelers.



Monday 4 February 2019

The rule of roller coaster

We all have been on a roller coaster ride at least once in our life. What were our feelings?

Imagine you are going up at great speed .. we feel exhilarated, we smile and laugh, we enjoy, and most important we feel we are in control. Have we ever shouted "O my God".

No....

Now imagine you are coming down at the same speed. Suddenly we begin to think , what will happen if the roller coaster malfunctions? The enjoyment suddenly changes to fear and instead of enjoying we close our eyes , we shoot , we hoot and remember our Gods. Why ??

Because suddenly the feeling of control has gone?

The same happens on our life. .

When things are going up we feel top of the world , we enjoy , we forget the owner of roller coaster and we call it "Our achievements"

When things are going down suddenly we feel nothing is in our control, we close our eyes , become fearful, start blaming everyone, right from family , friends , society, country , God and above all ourselves.. and that's the time we all remember our respective God.

The roller coaster of the universe is fool proof ..

Watch a kid when he is thrown in the air ..
The kid enjoys both up and down and giggles ..
Not because he is sure how dad will catch him..

No, he actually is not at all aware what falling is..
He just enjoys each moment as it comes .. knows no fear..

That's life .. enjoy each and every moment as if we are watching a movie ..
That's perfect state of bliss ..




Detachment


What is detachment?
Good question..!!!

When we are born we can't eat by ourselves, we can't pass stools nor walk or talk ..
We just cry and tell our problem .. and irrespective of nationality, caste, Creed , financial status , war or peace .. etc etc we were fed , cleaned and taught how to do all that ..
Once done we never took credit of it nor we bothered out our next action ..

A lion kills a deer , eats as much as he wants and leaves the rest for jackal, hyena , vulture etc .. without bothering whether he will have his next meal or not ..

The moment we become so called "intelligent and educated " we suddenly have a sense of "I" did it ...
The moment I did it comes in our mind .. the very next moment we become insecure "how will I do it again" 😂😂😂
So we save that uneaten deer for tomorrow.. the beginning of attachment starts ..
And it gets blown up as
My home , my car , my child , my company, my family , my country etc etc ..
And once we say "My" Universe says "thatastu" sambhalo isse ..
And we are like 🤔🤔🤔

Detachment is just changing the words

Your world , your earth , your family , your company, your etc etc to Universe and see the magic ...

It is like when we were children we were never bothered paise kaha se aayenge .. we just persisted in front of dad , dad reluctantly gave in to our persistence , we never said we did it .. we just enjoyed our fruits and then thought dad se next Kya maange ..

Here dad had limited resources..
But the supreme dad universe has unlimited resources .. because he is the creator not us .. we are just co creators ..

That's pure detachment..

I use this Everytime.. e.g
If I am conducting a workshop and something is not working out I talk to Universe ..

" Dekho Universe.. workshop nhi karna to bol do.. waise bhi I am very lazy .. I want to enjoy my weekend .. so I can call quits .. but if you think I am doing the right thing support me .. or else mein chala sone " 😂😂😂

Universe ne aaj tak mujhe sone nhi diya 😂😂😂

Put the credit or blame to supreme dad. .
And just thank him for whatever he has given ..
I had made it a practice whenever I go to Temple , church , gurudwara or masjid ..
I just say " thank you for whatever you have given me"
Now I have stopped going to all these places because now universe is my friend .. we are always together 👩‍❤‍💋‍👩